BILLAVA (POOJARY) MARRIAGE

If a man has intercourse with a woman, and she becomes pregnant, he has to marry her to the 'bidu dhare' rite. Before the marriage ceremony is performed, he has to grasp a plantain tree with his right hand, and the tree is then cut down.

BILLAVA MARRIAGE CUSTOMS AND CEREMONIES A few days before the wedding the maternal uncle of the bride or the 'Gurkara' ties a jewel on her neck, and a pandal is erected, and decorated by the caste washerman (madival) with clothes of different colours. If the Bridegroom is an adult, the bride has to undergo a purificatory ceremony a day or two before marriage (dhara) day. A few women, usually near of the girl, go to a tank, pond or well near a bhutasthana or garadi, and bring water thence in earthenware pots. The water is poured over the head of the girl, and she bathes. On the wedding day, the bride and bridegroom are seated on two planks placed on the dais. The Barber arranges the various articles, such as lights, rice, flowers, betel leaves and arecanuts, and a vessel filled with water, all of which are required for the ceremonial. He Joins the hands of the contracting couple, and their parents, or the headman, places the nose-screw of the bride on their hands, and pour the ...

A billava does not marry his sisters daughter, or mothers sisters daughter. He can marry his maternal uncle's or  paternal aunt's daughter. Two sisters can be taken in marriage simultaneously or at different times. Two brothers can marry two sisters. Can a Billava Marry Uncle’s Daughter? – Tradition, Bari System & Cultural View Marriage rules within the Billava community are deeply connected to tradition, lineage (Bari system), and regional customs . One frequently asked question is whether a Billava can marry an uncle’s daughter . The answer depends on which uncle , Bari lineage , and local customs followed by the family. Understanding Uncle’s Daughter in Marriage Context In Indian kinship terms, “uncle” can refer to: Mother’s brother Father’s brother These two relationships are treated very differently in Billava marriage traditions. Marriage with Mother’s Brother’s Daughter (Cross-Cousin Marriage) ✅ Traditionally Allowed in Many Billava Famili...

Billava (Poojary) Marriage Engagement – Traditions, Rituals & Significance The Billava (Poojary) marriage engagement is an important pre-wedding ceremony that marks the formal acceptance of the bride and groom by both families. Rooted in tradition and family values, the engagement ceremony symbolizes mutual consent, respect, and the beginning of wedding preparations within the Billava community. This article explains the meaning, rituals, and modern practices of Billava (Poojary) marriage engagement. What Is a Billava (Poojary) Marriage Engagement? A Billava (Poojary) engagement is a traditional ceremony where the bride and groom exchange rings or symbolic gifts in the presence of elders and relatives. It officially confirms the marriage alliance and strengthens the bond between both families. In many Billava families, the engagement is conducted after verifying Bari system compatibility and family background. Importance of Engagement in Billava (Poojary) Marriages The...